Surrender, Self-Respect and Common Sense

In the last blog post, Twin Flames or Love Bite: Genuine Love Connection versus Archontic Manipulation? (See http://evelorgen.com/wp/category/articles/alien-love-bite-related/)  the question of surrender and self-respect has come to light. I felt this needed an elaboration based on what was shared by an anonymous experiencer of a “Dark Side of Cupid” love relationship, that she assumed was her Twin Flame Soul Mate.

This is the last few paragraphs from “V” who shared her story of her “Twin Flame” love connection that she later believed to be a manipulation from “paranormal interferences” boosted by many New Age teachers, psychics and social conditioning. I will comment afterwards on the theme of the necessity of discernment, self-respect and surrender.

“My true inner guide or higher self has told me that my only mission here is to learn, grow, experience and share. Even learn from these soul connections and even learn of the deceptions of the archons. This is a huge learning school. And that we all get to choose what we want romantically, either a soul connection who is able to heal to give us the love and respect we deserve, or another connection who comes when we have learnt our lessons and took control over our lives. Either to continue a path single and happy to be single because we do not need someone else to be happy.

Surrender is the key to all this, as well as self empowerment, as in fact, the Light is INFORMATION. The more informed about deception, manipulation and control, the more free we become and the more connected to the prime Creator, or to source.”

Recently, the theme of surrender “to the light”  has arisen as the antidote to the cure and pain of the emotional suffering endured when one is in a “love bite” type of relationship.  In a “love bite” connection it is suspected that there is a type of interdimensional or paranormal interference, fueling an unhealthy drama of ecstatic highs and crashing lows, and a seeming endless unconsummated “drama”. The question of energy vampirism is also relevent, if indeed a person you have/had a powerful love connection with, is a host to some kind of attached entity, mind parasites, or simply a narcissistic kind of person. The above suggestion to surrender to highest unconditional love should be met with the caveat that self-respect is a large part of surrendering appropriately, when it comes to powerful love connections with another person. Surrendering to loving this person with a healthy sense of detachment, that is.

I think the key point here, is to remember not to “cast pearls before swine”. Especially if you suspect your love connection to be influenced in a malign way.

I also want to point out that there is a false light programming going on in many New Age circles, and this needs to be distinguished from the true “Organic Light”. Highest wisdom is a rare treasure, and I’m certain that it involves a degree of self-respect for the person who chooses to surrender without compromising their emotional, mental and spiritual well being. Many of us make sacrifices for the ones we love, and that is noble. But what I am seeing with so many cases of influenced love connections, is a kind of “spell” that comes over the person. For those who have reported this to me, the spell is made more powerful by a kind of psychic energetic linking that takes place in such a way, it activates certain energy centers like the solar plexus or the entire kundalini throughout the body. The person’s shakti is aroused and amplified, putting them in a state of bliss and ofentimes conflict all at the same time. The reason why these kinds of love connections are so hard to detach from is due to the addiction to the blissful sensations of the shakti, and the deep heart connection that can take place, regardless if the person you are with are normally “your type”. This is the paradox of the “love bite”, and “dark side of Cupid” relationships.

I do want to point out that the existence  of shakti energy or kundalini arousal is not bad in and of itself. It is the predatory beings or influences which “play the couple” like a pair of puppets while feeding on the psychic energy. The whole solution would be to then be able to clear oneself and ones partner from the predatory disruptive influences, so that the sacred love connection can be restored and nurtured. It also goes to say that such ‘influences” can be unresolved issues and conflicts within either partner and these weaknesses are exploited by predatory beings. I say, first get rid of the predatory beings and work on healing the issues that can make one vulnerable to such influences. Or do both at the same time if possible.

As I’ve elaborated on in my Dark Side of Cupid book, the only way one of these connections can truly thrive and survive is if both partners are aware enough of their own issues and shadow elements to be willing to work through these issues with transparency for the greater goal of sacred love. Can it work? Yes, I believe it can if both persons are willing, resilient and dedicated for a greater purpose. And this greater purpose must include self-respect and the knowledge that predatory beings and influences do exist, and to never lose ones discernment when one is presented with issues that compromise integrity and self-respect. Impeccability is most important. However, this is also a potentially troublesome goal if it’s unrealistic.  If we overvalue ones “good self” while making one’s other “bad/weak side” wrong or evil, we can fall into the unhealthy dynamics of the divided self. This concept is brought out succinctly in the book review of “The Guru Papers: Mask of Authoritarian Power” by Charles D. on Joel Kramer and Diana Alstad’s 1993 book. See http://lifering.org/2012/12/book-review-the-guru-papers-masks-of-authoritarian-power/

Essentially, many belief systems, especially religions and cults–do great damage to people by not taking into consideration basic human feelings and needs and tend to over emphasize a “divine self”. You know the scripture, “Be ye perfect as your Father in heaven is perfect”. I think this sets one up for ultimate failure and denial of some really basic human needs. This encourages the person to suppress their “bad side/weaknesses” to such a degree that they can fall into delusion, as well as exacerbate compulsive-addictive behaviors.

Recently, through a series of coincidences, the theme of surrender, self-respect and mind control has come up. Surrendering to unconditional love/light has arisen as the solution, in the previous blogpost regarding “Twin Flames”. I would add to this the basic foundation of wisdom and self-respect. This is difficult when one is “so in love” with a person or even a belief system or cult, where ones critical reasoning and sense of self dissolves away with dangerous consequences. I came across a story from 2012 about a Buddhist community where, in retreat some questionable and dangerous activities occurred– with lethal consequences. In  “Psychosis, Stabbing, Secrecy & Death at a Neo-Buddhist University in Arizona (http://www.elephantjournal.com/2012/05/psychosis-stabbing-secrecy-and-death-at-a-neo-buddhist-university-in-arizona/comment-page-2/#idc-cover) I was shocked to discover that I had actually met these people not long ago in my own Buddhist spiritual path. It showed what can happen when secrecy and obeying cult rules overrides ones common sense. A harmful condition I’ve observed in some spiritual cults is isolation from human interconnectedness, relationship and emotional support. There needs to be substantial emotional support when a spiritual practitioner enters tantric practice. When secrecy–or indifference for that matter—overrides these basic human needs, trouble is sure to follow.

There is a real danger in many cult-like spiritual groups and in some forms of tantric practice, in particular. I don’t want to make it sound like I am criticizing all spiritual groups, beliefs or tantric practices as corrupt, but I do think it deserves open and transparent discussion. The discussion needs to be education on mind control, predation, narcissistic and exploitative behaviors, emotional intelligence and human psychology. Basic human feelings and the needs beneath those feelings should never be marginalized or made “wrong”. Or in many religious patriarchal systems and even New Age ways of thinking, one is branded as “spiritually retarded”.  Perhaps what we need now more than ever is a true understanding of what being human really means, and to be able to make the distinction based on authentic experience–what humane is as opposed to Archontic, mind-parasite belief systems.

The Openseti.org web site has a section dedicated to Gnosticism, Archons/Greys, the Controller Agenda and the Djinn. This is an insightful discussion which also excerpts much of the work of John Lash and key points on who the Archons are and what their agenda is with humanity. See Gerry Zeitlin web site: http://openseti.org/GnosticA.html . This web page also contains one of the earlier interviews with Karmoplis.be and JohnLash from 2005:

http://evelorgen.com/wp/articles/spiritual-warfare-and-the-human-soul/john-lash-interview/

In a future article, I will touch upon the various reports, experiences and therapeutic processes of those who have undergone “alien interferences”, mind parasites and predatory, psychic vampire relationships. I want to thoroughly examine the different ways in which people perceive these issues and the modes of therapy, such as empathic support, inner empathy and parts integration, regressive hypnosis, hypnotherapeutic modes of guided visualization using Malanga’s liberation techniques and shamanic practices., such as Holographic Kinetics.